I am leaving the blogging world. I may be back someday, but most likely not. I’m tired of all the nasty, disgruntled people out there coming here and spewing their noxious waste all over my home on the net. The latest (left on my Dark Angel post) made me laugh, then annoyed me, as was intended of course. But regardless, it was just one more in a long line of similar crap posted by small minded people who are so dissatisfied with their petty lives, they must attempt to make all others miserable. I’m just tired of it all and have too many other things to do than deal with it anymore. So they win and I’m gone. I love all you friends who have conversed with me over the years and wish you all happiness and good things in life. Good bye. ❤ ((HUGS))
November 11, 2014 at 6:25 pm
Well, I don’t like, you have to be strong ! No, they don’t win…You lost, remember…
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November 17, 2014 at 12:45 pm
Thank you, Paul. And you’re right. Have a wonderful day. 🙂
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November 11, 2014 at 6:29 pm
Elizabeth, this is sad news. You have been and are an anchor for many bloggers over many years. I hear and understand why you are choosing to step away. At the same time, I will never allow others who spew to discourage me (and others) from sharing positive stories, messages and in your unique case, beautiful photographs, too. Please take time to reflect on how many people’s lives you have positively touched, if not affected. And when/if the time feels right, rejoin this amazing community of bloggers. Your presence will be missed.
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November 17, 2014 at 12:47 pm
You are a strong and courageous gentleman, Eric. Thank you for the support and the very kind compliments. 🙂
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November 11, 2014 at 6:39 pm
Elizabeth: I’m very sad to read this post and will miss your presence. I would think that the positives would surely outweigh the negatives, especially by those who type in all-caps! Whatever you decide, I wish you well and hope that we’ll cross paths someday. All the best to you. Smiles…:-)
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November 17, 2014 at 12:49 pm
Hi, Mark. Bet you never thought we’d cross paths again so soon, huh? 😀 Seriously though, I thank you so much for your kind support. Do you have lots of snow up there?
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November 11, 2014 at 6:43 pm
Oh Elizabeth, you must do what feels right to you. I will miss you and I hope we will stay connected on Fb? I am so grateful to have your shining light in my world. Wrapping you in ❤ and hugs xXx
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November 17, 2014 at 12:51 pm
Hello, Jane. Thank you, I appreciate your thoughtful comment. I am in a better frame of mind now. Will explain in my next post. Have a glorious day. ❤
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November 11, 2014 at 6:58 pm
I’m so sorry it has come to this for you, Elizabeth. Maybe later on if you feel like coming back to the blogging world you can do it under a different name for the blog. It’s a shame that others cannot just keep their mouths shut and just go away when the see something they don’t like. After all we are here to please them and if they don’t like our peaches, as it were, the sure don’t have to shake our tree by CHOOSING to follow our blogs. Blessings, Natalie 🙂
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November 17, 2014 at 12:55 pm
Obviously the thing she saw that she didn’t like was me. 😀 But that’s okay. She was just one more in a long line of people spouting their crap online. I was actually upset about something else when I read her comment and became angry. Thank you so much for showing such kindness. ((HUGS)) 🙂
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November 11, 2014 at 6:58 pm
Sorry, for the mistake. We are NOT here to please them.
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November 17, 2014 at 12:52 pm
That’s okay, Natalie. I knew what you meant. 🙂
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November 11, 2014 at 6:59 pm
I’m sorry this has happened to you. That’s the downside of the internet, unfortunately. 😦
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November 17, 2014 at 12:57 pm
Thanks so much. It is one of the downsides to being online, at least in the blogging world. But, there are definite upsides, like all of your lovely support. 🙂
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November 11, 2014 at 6:59 pm
Dear Elizabeth, do you really need to make such decision because somebody told something nasty? Don’t you know yourself? Are not you proud of your accomplishments?
Just control comments and throw away what you don’t like! Your blog is your publishing house, it is your property! Best to you!
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November 17, 2014 at 12:59 pm
Actually, JF, No I don’t and won’t. 😀 I like what you said about it being my property. So if someone came to my house causing trouble I’d show them the door, guess that’s what I’ll do here too. Thanks so much. 🙂
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November 17, 2014 at 1:43 pm
I am glad! Best to you!
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November 11, 2014 at 7:21 pm
Elizabeth, I am so sorry that happened. You must feel really crappy; I can see why you are leaving. You have been building up to this for a while. At least, just take a break and maybe you’ll be back?
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November 17, 2014 at 1:02 pm
Thank you so much, Hollis, I’ve been upset about another matter, but you know what happens when you’re under a lot of stress. The small things (like internet crap) seem so much more important because you’re in a more vulnerable place. But things are looking up in some regards so I’m trying to be upbeat as well. 🙂
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November 11, 2014 at 7:37 pm
How awful, Elizabeth. I’m so sorry. You are one of my most favorite bloggers.
the weirdest thing is that I thought of you several times today, since early this morning, and wondered how you’re doing. I also wanted to reach out and ask your permission on something.
I’m wishing you all the best, and I hope you’ll keep in touch.
A big hug back to you,
Cynthia.
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November 17, 2014 at 1:05 pm
Thank you so much, Cynthia, for your kindness. I’m planning a post to explain a few things. In the mean time, ask away, my friend. If you need/want permission for something–more than likely you have it. 🙂 xxoo
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November 17, 2014 at 2:42 pm
I plan to do another “Blog shop” to highlight bloggers who are artisans/artists, and wish to include you. I wonder if you prefer me to spotlight your books or your art, and if you sell the latter online.
It’s my gift to some of the very creative people in my blogging community.
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November 17, 2014 at 3:00 pm
That is such a wonderfully kind thing for you to do. Thank you. As for which, I leave it to you. I do a few commissioned art pieces, but I don’t sell online. Well not yet, although I’ve been thinking seriously about it lately. So you go with whatever you prefer and I’ll be thrilled either way. 🙂
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November 11, 2014 at 7:46 pm
This makes me very sad, Elizabeth. You and your blog have been a blessing to me. I understand your reasons, but hope one day you’ll change your mind. In the meantime, I hope we can keep in touch via email…I like your style. xo
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November 17, 2014 at 1:13 pm
You’re so sweet, Jill. Thank you for all your support and kindness. I’ve been very upset about some things lately and I guess I just needed a break. Will explain in my next post. Hope you are warm and cozy today. It’s frigid and snowy here. YUK… 😦 Have a great day.
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November 17, 2014 at 1:45 pm
You’re welcome, Elizabeth. Sometimes taking a break helps you see things more clearly. Take care of yourself and please keep the snow up your way! It’s pouring the rain here today, but temperatures are expected to be in the low 30’s tomorrow…double yuk! xo
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November 11, 2014 at 8:14 pm
Oh, so sorry to hear. It’s been a brief but wonderful relationship. I think blogging has somewhat of a shelf life anyway. Just sorry to hear your decision was not made under more positive circumstances.
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November 17, 2014 at 1:15 pm
Marissa, thank you so much. I have so enjoyed your writings lately and hope to read much more over the coming months. Have a lovely day. 🙂
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November 11, 2014 at 8:25 pm
So sorry. You will be missed, especially by yours truly!
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November 17, 2014 at 1:16 pm
Thank you so much for all your kind support. I appreciate it more than I can say. 🙂
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November 11, 2014 at 8:37 pm
How upsetting for you. You will be greatly missed in the blogging world. Would like to keep in touch with you . Would you be my Facebook friend?
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November 17, 2014 at 1:17 pm
Thanks so much, Elaine. I’ve truly enjoyed our conversations and hope we have a chance for many more. 🙂
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November 11, 2014 at 8:47 pm
Never be discouraged by such people they are there in work family and on net I doubt if they have fun out of it .
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November 17, 2014 at 1:18 pm
I doubt they have fun out of much of anything in life, on or offline. Thanks so much for your kindness. Have a great day.
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November 11, 2014 at 8:57 pm
Oh no! You cannot be serious. You have a good thing going here. Please give it another try.
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November 17, 2014 at 1:19 pm
Thank you so much, Noel. I will be back. How could I not with so much kindness and support from my blogging family. 🙂
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November 11, 2014 at 9:02 pm
Bye sweetie ❤
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November 11, 2014 at 9:06 pm
I have just read what she wrote. Click edit on the comment and move to trash where she belongs my friend xox
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November 11, 2014 at 9:24 pm
I just commented in her blog >>>>
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Ralph Your comment is awaiting moderation.
November 11, 2014 at 7:15 pm
You wrote this on Elizabeth’s blog >>>>>>>
YOUR A WRITER .. I WILL NOT FOLLOW U NOR DO I EVEN WANT U FOLLOWING MY BLOG .. U PEOPLE MAKE ME SICK .. BUT I AM SURE LIKE THE REST .. U WILL CONTINUE TO READ MY SHIT ..CAN’T RESIST ..NO THAT’S NOT IT .. U HAVE NO ORIGINAL IDEAS…
It’s “you’re a writer” and “U” is “you” . Have a nice day ! Ralph 😀
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Heehee ! Come back Elizabeth !
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November 11, 2014 at 10:32 pm
And can the all-caps!
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November 17, 2014 at 1:22 pm
Maybe she thought I was hearing impaired.
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November 17, 2014 at 1:21 pm
You are such a lovely friend, Ralph. You always make me smile. I will be back. You can’t get rid of me so easily. I’m like a bad penny. Throw me away and I keep coming back. 😀 ❤ xo
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November 17, 2014 at 5:37 pm
Elizabeth !!! What fabulous news ! You’re no bad penny by any means. You are more like a sparkly boomerang spinning through the blogosphere and whacking me on the head when you see I need it 😉 Welcome back…ish my friend 😀 xox ❤
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November 14, 2014 at 11:55 pm
My sentiments exactly!
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November 11, 2014 at 9:16 pm
I hit “like” on this post because I “like” you and your work. It is unfortunate there are meatheads out there who impose their negative misery on the world.
Take care, and if you should return, I’ll be following.
I agree with Ralph…. move the comment to the trash where it belongs. ❤
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November 11, 2014 at 10:33 pm
Same here, Elizabeth. Send it to trash city!
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November 17, 2014 at 1:26 pm
Well, Mark, I’ve never trashed any negative comments, only spam. It’s always been one of my blogging policies to leave both the negative and positive opinions. But maybe it’s time for a change.
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November 13, 2014 at 10:22 pm
Couldn’t agree more Resa! See Liza?? YOU ARE “LIKED” BY MANY….and I LOVE you!! Forgive my caps, but feel very strongly, especially when it comes to someone as beautiful as you dear friend…you are worth ten fold more than the garbage those morons spew out across the net, and i KNOW you will bounce back!! Love ya!!
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November 17, 2014 at 1:31 pm
My darlin’ friend. You are always so supportive, Deb, and in this case so right. I am definitely bouncing back. 😀 Love you! I’m so glad I met you online all those years ago. What a blessing you’ve been to me.
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November 17, 2014 at 1:28 pm
Thank you so much, lovely friend,Resa. I appreciate your kind support. It’s very hard if not impossible to stay away in light of so much kindness. 🙂
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November 17, 2014 at 2:57 pm
🙂 ❤
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November 17, 2014 at 2:59 pm
So return with your best posts ever!!!!!! The ultimate satisfaction!
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November 11, 2014 at 10:50 pm
Neglect them and win over them …………….I like your many post but not this
Sinner should not be winner
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November 17, 2014 at 1:33 pm
Thank you, my friend. You are so thoughtful. 🙂
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November 17, 2014 at 1:38 pm
Welcome and keep posting
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November 11, 2014 at 10:58 pm
I understand how you feel as I went through something similar and almost stopped blogging, I also wrote about it – http://blessedwithastarontheforehead.wordpress.com/2012/06/03/to-blog-or-not-to-blog/ . I am so glad I didn’t stop.
My wish is that you reconsider your position. Take a few days days and think about the reason why you have this blog. Do not stop because of other people, it is not a question of winning or losing, it is a question of being true to what speaks to your heart.
If you still want to quit this blog I will be sad to see you go but I wish you only the very best! Many blessings! 🙂
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November 17, 2014 at 1:34 pm
I’ve taken your very wise advice and I thank you for your kindness. Now I’m going to go read that post of yours. 🙂
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November 18, 2014 at 6:35 pm
Awesome! I am glad you reconsidered! Blessings! 🙂
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November 11, 2014 at 11:56 pm
Elizabeth,
PLEASE re-consider. You are worthwhile, the begrudgers are inarticulate little bastards of no worth..so re-consdier and don’t let them get to you. i’ve had a share of abusive emails which i deleted and got over..i had to.
Whatever you decide i wish you the best.
joh
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November 17, 2014 at 1:35 pm
Thank you for all your kind support, John. How could I stay away and miss all your beautiful work? I can’t. 🙂
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November 11, 2014 at 11:57 pm
john
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November 12, 2014 at 12:23 am
I ticked ‘Like’ though of course I don’t like . I’m so sorry you’ve decided that these nasty, malicious small minded people should win. You’re valued Elizabeth, they’re not. It’s certainly not easy but you should learn to rise above these ridiculous comments which really aren’t even worth your attention. You should wipe them and block the person who made them. Perhaps in some cases even report them.
If you go you’ll be missed and these fools sensing a victory will rush to do the same to someone else. We become less by your absence.
xxx Massive Hugs xxx
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November 17, 2014 at 1:37 pm
After reading through all these lovely comments, I have decided to change my mind. It’s a woman’s prerogative after all. 😀 Thank you so much for all of your kindness since we’ve met, David. It means the world to me. 🙂
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November 12, 2014 at 12:36 am
Hello Elizabeth,
I’m one of the ‘silent readers’ who have always enjoyed your writing. I am very sorry to learn of your unpleasant experience. I agree, it’s the downside of the Internet, and too many people don’t think before they write. I respect your decision of course, but wanted to let you know your work has been enjoyed here in Japan.
Best wishes,
Takami
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November 17, 2014 at 1:39 pm
I have enjoyed your beautiful photographs and stories as well, my friend. Thank you so much for your kind support. I have taken a break and will return soon with a new post. ((hugs))
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November 17, 2014 at 7:06 pm
Hello again friend!
Oh, this is great news 🙂 I will look forward to your new post (whenever you feel like it, of course). As you can see, there are many people who appreciate your work! Hugs from Tokyo 🙂
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November 12, 2014 at 6:25 am
I am sad to hear this, Elizabeth. I hope you will return at some time.
Sarah
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November 17, 2014 at 1:49 pm
Thank you so much, Sarah. Thanks to all the wonderful support from my blogging friends, I will return. BTW- Sarah has always been my favorite female name. It’s so lovely. 🙂
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November 17, 2014 at 2:21 pm
That’s wonderful to hear, Elizabeth. Good for you! Don’t let the b*****ds grind you down. (I’m rather fond of my name too, as long as nobody misses off the ‘h’.) 😀
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November 12, 2014 at 6:42 am
Give the girl a break, she is drowning out there. I had a look, her last three posts have attracted seven “likes” between them. Nobody reads her and nobody likes her work and she can bring you down? Mark her comment as spam and she no longer exists and she never did. Poor thing.
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November 17, 2014 at 1:59 pm
😀 Maybe she just recently activated her like button the way I did mine. Of course she claims to be a poet, but hates writers, so that’s a little confusing. Regardless. I’ve been so overwhelmed with kindness and support from all you lovely friends, I am returning. Thank you for giving me a smile today with your comment. 🙂
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November 12, 2014 at 6:46 am
How unfortunate to have endured all the problems you have as stated. You and your marvelously distinctive work will be missed Elizabeth. sending love and good fortune, Eddie
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November 17, 2014 at 2:00 pm
Thank you for all your kindness and support, Eddie. I shall return, just needed a break. Have a great day. 🙂 (hugs)
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November 12, 2014 at 10:00 am
Elizabeth I would like to add my voice to the others who will miss you. I would also like to thank you. You have touched so many people with your grace and your wisdom. Your words have made me laugh and made me cry. I will miss your gentle perceptions and your gutsy style. Be well my friend. Pamela (aka quiall)
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November 17, 2014 at 2:23 pm
Thank you, Pamela. I appreciate your lovely support and kindness. Your very kind comment touched my heart. Thank you again. I’ll be back and will be visiting you soon. 🙂
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November 12, 2014 at 10:18 am
Sad indeed. I get sucker punched now and again. But they never come back after I trace their I.P. address and let them know that I know exactly who they are sometimes or where they are. I imagine is cares them because they thought they were oh so anonymous. My nasties only post once or twice. Then I trace and put em in their place. All the best to you!
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November 17, 2014 at 2:25 pm
Sucker punched…yes, that’s exactly what it is is. I always said only cowards will sucker punch you. Thank you so much, Sharon. Your kindness and wise advice is much appreciated. I shall return. 🙂
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November 12, 2014 at 10:22 am
Elizabeth, I hope you reconsider and never mind those that are not worthy of being spoken about. Perhaps if you moderated all comments it’s as easy as not approving and trashing their comment. Hope you stay and moderate!
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November 17, 2014 at 2:26 pm
Thank you so much, Mary. I appreciate your sincere kindness. I will be back soon and can’t wait to see your next beautiful painting. 🙂
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November 13, 2014 at 7:53 am
Merci y hasta la victoria siempre
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November 17, 2014 at 2:05 pm
Thank you so much. Laurent, I have achieved victory and shall return. 🙂
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November 13, 2014 at 6:18 pm
I don’t allow the naysayers to bother me. Many bloggers. I like the most of them. I do my best to stay away from hateful blogs. Blogging and writing should be for pleasure. So far in 40 years of writing. I made $500 on a contest. I hope you hang around. I have enjoyed your site.
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November 17, 2014 at 2:13 pm
Thank you, I appreciate your thoughtful comment and support. I’ve thought it over and in sight of so much support it’s hard not to return so I will be back. 🙂
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November 13, 2014 at 6:23 pm
I’d like to say that I “can’t believe” people make nasty comments, so much so that they’ve driven you away. Yet, I know it must be true. I am so sorry. How I wish you were able to simply ignore them, but I’m sure it gets to a point where it’s easier on your mind and spirit to rid yourself of all the negativity. Please take a break, then come back to all of us. Blessings.
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November 17, 2014 at 2:15 pm
Thank you Kim. Your kind support is so appreciated. The comments and emails are distressing, but wouldn’t have bothered me if I’d not already been upset and worried about something else. But I’ve changed my mind and will be coming back. Thank you again. 🙂
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November 13, 2014 at 10:23 pm
Oh no Liza!! I am very upset, for you, and wish I could really say what I WANT to say here (directed at those who have caused this to happen) but will not reduce myself to their level.
Just know I am sorry it has come to this, but completely understand…you have the nicest soul and do NOT deserve to feel this way so do what you need to do my friend…the world of blogging will surely lose some sunshine when you go 😦
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November 17, 2014 at 2:17 pm
You know I’m never down for the count, Deb. I’ll be returning and mostly it’s due to all the lovely support from my dear friends like you. Love you, sweetie. ((HUGS)) ❤
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November 14, 2014 at 4:08 am
Don’t let these pathetic people win, you are a fantastic writer and your blog is a mix of all things wonderful, it is a sad day when a blog leaves but because other bloggers are being childish is just sickening. I hope youreconsider soon as we will all miss you very much!
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November 17, 2014 at 2:20 pm
Thank you, Ste J, I know you have had your own trouble with this. I’ve been down about an unrelated matter and just figured I didn’t need the added stress, but because I’ve heard some good news for a change and because of all the loving support shown me here in the comments, I’ve decided to come back. So I’ll be visiting you soon. 🙂
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November 24, 2014 at 5:30 am
Yay! I have been away for a bit myself but it cheers me up…I really do hate losing one of my blogger family, it is fitting as I have Christmas music on as I write this and that means miracles do happen at this time of year! I shall also be visiting again soon, I think I should be back to it tomorrow so I shall be by then.
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November 14, 2014 at 4:31 am
How sad!… I truly hope you come back, Elizabeth. Much love!, Aquileana 😛
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November 17, 2014 at 2:21 pm
Thank you for your kind and thoughtful support, Aquileana. It means the world to me. I’ll be back. 😀
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November 22, 2014 at 8:53 am
spam=>delete permanently… 🙂 courage, peace and tons of inspiration! c u asap, cheers, Mélanie
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November 23, 2014 at 1:51 pm
Thank you so much, Melanie. I appreciate it. I don’t think it was spam, she just decided she hated me because I write. Go figure. 🙂
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November 28, 2014 at 8:43 am
Elizabeth – You will be missed – You have such beautiful, elegant, respectful and powerful presentation. ay God Bless you and brings you much more success.!
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December 1, 2014 at 12:14 am
Thanks so much, Mihran, for such a lovely comment. I’ve decided to keep on blogging for now. 🙂
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December 1, 2014 at 1:11 am
Elizabeth – may I say to you” I adore you”
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December 2, 2014 at 8:25 am
Thank you wholeheartedly, Mihran. That is so sweet. Great big HUGS to you! (( 🙂 ))
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December 6, 2014 at 7:49 pm
Are you really leaving? I’m sorry you’ve had problems with people, I don’t understand why they’re doing that to you, your blog is beautiful and positive.
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December 6, 2014 at 11:27 pm
No, I was going to, but thanks to all the kindness and support of my fellow bloggers (including you–thank you!) I have decided to stick around for a while. Thank you for your very kind words. 🙂
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December 7, 2014 at 8:11 am
That’s great, just hold your head up high and keep blogging. I think the amount of good people in the community far out weigh the not so good people, even though negative comments seem to have a deeper impact. if they comment negatively, just don’t respond at all and immediately spam their comment. You’ll be giving them no fuel, they will get bored and move on, and their statements will also hurt less if you’re able to walk away. Glad you’re sticking around 🙂
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