Sorry I haven’t been around to your blogs for the past few days. Took my son to move into his dorm Wednesday morning (wow, what a day that was) and then for the past couple of days I’ve been spring cleaning. A little late in the season for spring cleaning, but I needed something physical to keep me too busy to miss my son too much. It didn’t work, but the house looks nice.
What can I say about move in day at University–confusing, chaotic, rush hour in New York City, frustrating, annoying, lost, anger inducing, aggravating, hot, exhausting, thirsty, hungry, exciting, sad, happy. Yes it was all those things and more. We left at 7:00 AM and at 3:00 we’d managed to get at least three thirds of my son’s stuff in his room and unpacked. That’s eight hours with nothing to eat or drink. I grabbed my two sons and we walked down the street to the subway for a very late lunch/early dinner. After refueling, we sat in the courtyard of one of the buildings and chilled for awhile before I had to head out for the two hour drive home. It was a horrible/wonderful day. He’s there and from his texts and emails, he’s happy. So he’s happy, I’m happy.
Now you’ve read my sappy post, I’ll leave you with some lovely writing from one of my favorite poets.
A Bird came down the Walk —
He did not know I saw —
He bit an Angleworm in halves
And ate the fellow, raw,
And then he drank a Dew
From a convenient Grass —
And then hopped sidewise to the Wall
To let a Beetle pass —
He glanced with rapid eyes
That hurried all around —
They looked like frightened Beads, I thought —
He stirred his Velvet Head
Like one in danger, Cautious,
I offered him a Crumb
And he unrolled his feathers
And rowed him softer home —
Than Oars divide the Ocean,
Too silver for a seam —
Or Butterflies, off Banks of Noon
Leap, plashless as they swim.
–Emily Dickinson
August 23, 2013 at 11:40 pm
Beautiful poem
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August 24, 2013 at 6:30 am
Thanks. A quirky, funny little poem from Emily always cheers me. 🙂
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August 24, 2013 at 4:30 am
Am sure you are missing Eric and I’m sure he’ll feel the same way….give it time my friend, everything will come together in the end. Thanks for sharing both the news & Emily 🙂 Love you xxx
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August 24, 2013 at 6:35 am
Sweetie, I miss him SO much. But then I expected to. 😦 I’m also happy and proud he’s there. He certainly worked hard enough for this. Pray you are feeling a little better and not so sad, my friend. Love and ((hugs)).
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August 24, 2013 at 6:42 am
Hello Elizabeth! I can relate. You did not mention tears–they are coming. However, time heals all wounds. hang in there.
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August 24, 2013 at 8:34 am
Oh, Noel…there were tears. I promised him I wouldn’t cry. And hard as it was I kept that promise until the trip home. Although I noticed a couple of times he was near tears himself. 🙂 Thank you for such comforting words.
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August 24, 2013 at 12:02 pm
I can only imagine how much you’re missing your son, Elizabeth. I suppose you can find some comfort in knowing he’s happy and you’re house is clean! He’ll be home for the holidays before you know it. 🙂
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August 24, 2013 at 2:24 pm
Yes, he will and that’s comforting. And of course it’s always nice to have a clean house. Thanks for coming by Jill and leaving such a nice comment. 🙂
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